Monday, June 2, 2014

What is love?

Here is a story of a foolish girl. She was almost 16 when she finally got her first boyfriend. She was ex tactic because she didn't think anyone would ever be interested in her. They dated for eight months and she was happy but she wasn't sure if he was the one. He hung around a lot of girls and she found it hard to trust him. There was another girl that liked him but he promised the girl that's he wasn't a threat. The girl ignorantly believed him and they continued the relationship. One day the girl finds out he was cheating on her and her world shatters even more than it was before. He was sexting the non-threat girl behind her back. He expected that she wouldn't find out and went on with the relationship. The girl was so upset that she broke up with him. He texted her telling her he was so upset and sorry and wanted her back because she was the one for him. She dumbly took him back and now she doesn't feel the same as she did in the beginning. She thinks she made a mistake but she doesn't want to hurt him like he hurt her. This is the story of a girls first relationship. She doesn't know what to do because she wasn't raised with an example of a normal relationship. She allows herself to be walked on. She is the girl that no one knows. 
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  1. EveJune 2, 2014 at 4:41 PM

    I really feel for you on this post because I was that girl. Never allow yourself to be second. Don't worry about these guys. They're young, you're young. You've got time to find yourself, find out that you deserve the best and you deserve love. Never settle. My parents never had a good relationship and I didn't understand. It took someone good to show me that it's okay to be confident and demand a little respect.

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    1. Just another depressed teen.June 3, 2014 at 3:53 AM

      Thank you, a lot. I'm just seeing if he's changed but I'm not sure because once a cheater always a cheater, right? -Dani xx

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    2. EveJune 5, 2014 at 7:47 AM

      Not necessarily. I was a cheater and with my current boyfriend I have no desire to. There are a ton of factors playing in besides the obvious selfish one. Could be that you guys are young, could be that there's a societal influence, could be that there's something missing from the relationship. Gender plays into it, low levels of conscientiousness. Don't give up hope on people, but don't let them treat you poorly either. Sometimes people have to learn on their own. Maybe it takes you walking away.

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